Personally speaking, the ability to communicate well seems
like the only way to differentiate oneself from the rest in the working world.
In our endless chase for academic success, it seems that everybody has a degree
these days. What allows one to get ahead in this rat race is really the ability
to communicate well. Coming from the
Science faculty, I have always heard that Science students are unable to
articulate themselves as well as their peers from Arts or Business faculties.
It is because of this that I feel that Science students are often disadvantaged
when it comes to interviews for jobs. As I am soon graduating from NUS, I hope
to brush up on my communication skills in order to prepare myself adequately
for the working world.
Effective communication skills are also useful in one’s
social life. This includes your family and friends. Being able to communicate
effectively would mean that I would be able to deepen and richen my relationships
with them. To me, this is perhaps the most important reason why communication skills
are an essential skill set.
Over the past two weeks, I have learnt that communication
skills are not limited to your ability to speak alone. It includes many other
areas such as how you listen to people, hear them out as well as how to interpret
their non-verbal communication cues. Being able to get my message across
effectively as well as to read other’s messages is vital to the success of any
relationship. These relationships may be built at work, home or even when out socialising.
I feel that humans are very much social creatures. They want to be always
connected to others. There is no better way to connect to others except through
building solid relationships with them. Effective communication skills would
serve us all well in reaching this aim.
Arvind, you might want to give more concrete examples about how good communication skills actually "deepen and enrich" our lives- I mean specifically. How does listening actively or empathically help in a workplace situation or at home with a family member. Also think of popular preconceived notions of Science graduates as opposed to say Humanities graduates-what specifically do you think creates this impression. That's a good starting point because then you can look inwards to see if you are like that and if so work on fixing that.
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